No Kids Live Here

We all have memories of “that room”, growing up ours was our best friend’s grandmothers sitting room. It was for adults only, and we certainly were not to even think of taking food nor beverage anywhere near it. the carpet was white, and the furniture was posh and super uncomfortable. We used to joke that sitting in there felt like sitting in the funeral home. It was the place to be seen and not heard. Every other room felt like a second home to us, but even well into our adulthood, it felt ever so odd to be invited into that room to visit.


CHEZ MOI – Kings Piano @ Equal10
Dictatorshop – Louis – Chair
Dictatorshop – Louis – Display Case Decor
Dictatorshop – Louis – Side Table Decor
Dictatorshop – Louis – Sofa


Bricolage – Antique Blue Floral Persian Rug
Dirty Princess – The High Society Princess Drapes
Fapple – Alexander Glass Coffee Table
FOURTH WALL – Spegla Mirror – Silver
Llorisen – Wilby Pied-a-Terre Skybox v2 *modified
North Oak – Peony Wide Flower Vase
Monarchs – Woman Holding a Light Mirrored- Gift
Nutmeg – Chandelier Gift
Nutmeg – Glass Door Cabinet *modified
Nutmeg – Retro Glam Telephone Cream w/Pearls
Nutmeg – White Vase

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Poses marked with an * have been adjusted for the photo.
All items found at mainstore or marketplace unless otherwise noted.

Sacrifice and Compromise

Two of the most vital tools in any healthy relationship are sacrifice and compromise. There are many other important parts as well, but today we are going to talk about these two.

Sacrifice : an act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy.

Compromise : an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions.

During the course of a long term relationship, there will be times where both are not just needed, but required. While it is always best to try and compromise, to find a solution that both sides can agree with, not all situations have a middle ground. That is when one side must sacrifice for the sake of the greater good.

Our relationships with Troy, have all involved a bit of both over the past nearly 5 years, and will involve greater sacrifices in future for us to have the life together that we both want. Since Troy is in the UK and we are in the USA, there is no way to compromise on a middle ground, because we can not live in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean, so one of us is going to have to sacrifice our current country in order to be together.

The important thing to consider with sacrifice, is that in a healthy relationship both sides make them equally. The same goes for compromises, both sides have to give as much as they take, for the scales to balance out.

Today’s post is brought to you by the new release from Something New, Sacrificial Wolf is available as part of Stop Till You Drop 2022 which runs from Oct 24th – Nov 1st . The set comes with 2 versions. FMF and FFF prop and scene are included and modifiable.

The always gorgeous Pickle Zombae joined us for our sacrifice today, and you can check out her amazeball-ness at her blog Kaleidoscope . You will have to pop over there if you would like her credits because I didn’t ask for them !


Something New – Sacrificial Wolf @ Stop Till You Drop – Mainstore


REBORN – Juicy Rolls
Uh-Oh – Kiki Cat Piercing
Magika – Gemma Hair
Mossu – Reese Shorts
Addams – Heaven Tall Boots with Ruffle Sock
Catseye – Bento Tail – tufted
Izzies – Face & Body Blood & Wounds
Carol G – Season Full TaTToo


Izzies – Face & Body Blood & Wounds


Something New – Sacrificial Wolf @ Stop Till You Drop – Mainstore
QE Designs – Mystic Wall
Ugajin Store – Real Rain
Fapple – Pumpkin King
Fapple – Pumpkin Queen


Something New – Sacrificial Wolf @ Stop Till You Drop – Mainstore *

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All items found at mainstore or marketplace unless otherwise noted.

Our Hollowed Home

Recently we had a conversation with one of our SL sisters about decorating for the holidays, and we had to chuckle about how we have no patience for decorating in RL, but love doing it in SL. When it comes to holiday decor we have an attention span of about 2 weeks, unfortunately commercialism thinks it needs to shove every holiday down your throat 3 months before it gets here, so by the time the holiday actually comes around, you have zero desire to put it up, only to have to take it all back down again in 2 weeks.

Thankfully in SL, decorating and redecorating is as easy as a click of the mouse, and an inventory search for keywords, or if you have a Kait, just find the appropriately named holiday folder in your #Seasonal Decor folder.

I was so excited to see the Kendrick Cabin from The Green Door for TLC. You can pick it up yourself at TLC from October 18th – November 10th. The Kendrick Cabin is a cozy wood cabin with one bedroom, a kitchen/dining area, living area and bathroom. Features the home control system for security and texture change. Only 80 LI, copy/mod.

The cabin makes the perfect rural home for this InkMe Deads and Ghosts set which you can pick up at Halloweentown. The set comes with gravestones, floating ghosts, hanging skeletons, covered bodies, a giant skull and jack-o-lanterns. While you are over at Halloweentown, be sure and check out all of the other spooky holiday items, as well as seasonal fall items too.

I could not resist doing a larger staging of the cabin for my own enjoyment, and decided to include them for inspiration for you all too ! I hope you enjoy !


The Green Door – Kendrick Cabin @ TLC
InkMe – Deads and ghosts B @ Halloweentown


Apple Fall – Pumpkin Harvest Wreath
Bee Designs – Halloween Living room
Fapple – Barrel with Pumpkins
Lunaria – Harvest Fence
NACH – Halloween Welcome Mat
Noveny – Pumpkin Scarecrow – Red
What Next – Autumn Leaves Garland
What Next – Happy Fall Banner


ACORN – Sink Brush Jug
ACORN – Sink Plug
ACORN – Soap Dish Jug
ACORN – Vintage Style Dish Rack
Alouette – Basil Plant – Potted *Discontinued
ARIA – Savannah Roman Blinds
BROKEN ARROWS – Anne Kitchen – Bowls (Porcelain/Text)
Cheeky Pea – Country Home Console
Consignment – Catia Kitchen – Microwave
DRD – Rustic Refurbished shelf
Dust Bunny – laundry room cabinets
Dust Bunny – potted bromeliad
Hive – modern farmhouse kitchen cabinets
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Can Food
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Can Food Pile (Gold)
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Closed Basket Blue
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Coffee
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Dill
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Glasses (Gold)
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Granola
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Herbs Basket (Gold)
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Paper Towel Basket (Gold)
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Paprika
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Plate Pile
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Quinoa
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Rice
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Spaghetti
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Thyme
KraftWork – Kitchen Clutter – Wheat
What Next – Dotty Cookie Jar
What Next – Patisserie Kitchen Mixer
What Next – Patisserie Kitchen Utensils
Why Not ? – Airntully Floor Rug
Why Not ? – Carberry Country Kitchen Rugs
Why Not ? – Tarvie Dining Table
Your Dreams – Ambrosial Kitchen – Red Big casserole
Your Dreams – Ambrosial Kitchen – Fruit iron basket
Your Dreams – Ambrosial Kitchen – Rug
Your Dreams – Apartment kitchen – – Cutlery pot
Your Dreams – Apartment kitchen – Blender Green
Your Dreams – Apartment kitchen – Rug
Your Dreams – Classic Kitchen – Big Pan
Your Dreams – Dream Home kitchen – Egg basket
Your Dreams – Dream kitchen – Coffee machine


Bee Designs – fall for you 03
Bee Designs – fall for you 05
Bee Designs – fall for you 06
Black King By Fabio Castelli (Original Art)
BTW – Gnomey Fall Frame (Brown)
Cullum Writer – Seduction (Original Art)
Dust Bunny – laundry room clutter . hanging tote bag
Dust Bunny – potted cheese plant
Dust Bunny – spotted begonia
Fetch – Szalina Curtain
FINCA – fall penant (group gift)
Floorplan – jack’s scattered manuscript
LouChara – Hello Autumn Bench
LouChara – Hello Autumn Decor
What Next – Brixton Bakers Rack
Why Not ? – Achnacraig Wall Shelf
Why Not ? – Applecross Livingroom Wall Art Frames
Why Not ? – Bracklinn Fall Rug
Why Not ? – Glenearn Arm Chair
Why Not ? – Glenearn Basket Plant
Why Not ? – Glenearn Basket Plant
Why Not ? – Glenearn Book Shelf {L}
Why Not ? – Glenearn Book Shelf {R}
Why Not ? – Glenearn Cat Nap Decor
Why Not ? – Glenearn Fire place Decor
Why Not ? – Glenearn Giraffe Planters
Why Not ? – Glenearn Ornamental Pot
Why Not ? – Glenearn Ottoman
Why Not ? – Glenearn Side Board
Why Not ? – Glenearn Sofa
Why Not ? – Glenfarg Wall Art C
Why Not ? – Lochrin Wall Shelf 1
Why Not ? – Lochrin Wall Shelf 2
Your Dreams – Lattissima Coffee Bar – Old apple frame
Your Dreams – Lattissima Coffee Bar – Old lemon frame

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Poses marked with an * have been adjusted for the photo.
All items found at mainstore or marketplace unless otherwise noted.