Horny Lil Devil


We seem to have a fascination with all things horny. Goats, unicorns, dragons .. wait, do dragons have horns ? I am going to say yes they do, and since I am the one writing this opinion, I can !

We actually have a RL tattoo on our shoulder of a cute lil devil baby with a diaper and a pitchfork, that was my ‘First day of college’ gift to us, and it is still one of my favorites. Devil on our shoulder at that point in our life, seemed far more fitting than an angel, tho we probably could have used the angel more.

When I first saw this horny lil Yoko outfit from LooKatMe, I thought the top was a kitty, which it certainly could be. Then I saw the panties, and well, those spaded little tails make it quite clear what the devil wants to make you do. The outfit includes a HUD with 5 color options for the ears and spades. There is also a sneaky little demon eyeliner included as well.


FEATURED

LooKatMe – Outfits Yoko

ALSO WORN

Heron – Toryel
Normandy – Mean Bitch Boots MK2
PROMAGIC – Bandi – Whip – Black
Sintiklia – Hair Yvonne

POSE

Versuta – Nana

BACKDROP

PALETO – Backdrop – Alley M9


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A Real Friend


A friend will help you move, but a real friend will help you move a body.

Real friends are hard to come by, but we are blessed that over the years we have acquired some pretty amazing ones. The kind that will not just help move a body, but who help us with far more important things like saving our sanity and keeping us real. Even if we may not talk every day, or even every week. These are those friends that you keep in your heart and when you do talk, it is like not a day has passed since the last time, even if it was over a year.

We have trouble letting people into the ‘real’ us. There are many people that get a version of us, the public persona, the Hanna Montana. The ones that get behind the curtain, are so precious to us that they often do not even realize it.

In our previous blog, we spoke about the heart attack that we had in April of 2020, and the stent that was placed then. That episode cost us 30% of our heart muscle. Since then, we have been on medication, gotten our diabetes under control, lost some weight and gotten our cholesterol in check. We have not felt anything to indicate that the damage had been getting worse, but recently we had a Nuclear Stress Test, and it indicated that the area of damage has doubled, since our Echo-cardiogram last august. On Thursday, September 15th, we are undergoing another cardiac cathetrization so that they can get an up close and personal look at the left ventricle of our heart and see if we need another stent, or a more invasive procedure to stop the spread of muscle loss.

We are going into this procedure with a positive attitude, and trying our very best to keep our panic and anxiety at a manageable level. With any luck, we will be back home on Friday and feeling back to life as we know it. If you should have some positive vibes to spare, we could use them. Hopefully no one will need to move a body.


FEATURED

Something New – Murderous Halloween

Click the red door at the mainstore to find Halloweentown and all the spooky goodness !

WORN

Truth Hair – Indigo
Izzies – Face & Body Blood & Wounds
Candy Kitten – Mamacita Overall V2
Vagrant – Sheryl Top
Semller – Worn Canvas Hi Tops Floral Embroidery


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Here Kitty Kitty


As some of you may remember, Prin turned into a very furry kitty just shy of 2 years ago. When we made our return as Arysta, since this avi is a combination of all three of us, I chose to keep our tail, as the representation of myself. It is my signature part of Arysta. When I saw these adorable Kali Earrings from Second Nature Jewelry with the sweet little kitty in the moon, I was so excited.

The earrings are available in both Gold and Silver, and in your choice of LeLutka Human or Catwa ears. They make the purrrfect addition to any bewitching outfit, or just for your own personal daily dose of pussy.

I paired up the Katja Choker, also from Second Nature Jewellery which you can get in gold or silver as well.


FEATURED

Second Nature Jewellery – Kali Earrings
Second Nature Jewellery – Katja Choker

WORN

Nuve – Hailey Skin – Fair
Nuve – Hailey Eyebrows – Blonde
Nuve – Lip Tint – 6
Truth Hair – Mischief
Deep Static – Kinsley Glasses
Bunk – Nose Spikes


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Belle Of The Fall Ball


Nothing says GLAM, more than diamonds and glossy red lips.

As soon as I picked up the Grace Set from Second Nature Jewellery, I knew I was going to rock it like the Belle of the Ball. It has all the glamor of a red carpet event, but still holds the simplicity to wear for a nice dinner date. The set is available in Gold or Silver, and each set comes with a HUD for Gem change. It comes preset with 8 Gem colors, and also includes a color wheel to allow you to choose the exact shade and color to suit your occasion.

I chose to add the Athena Rose Ring, also by Second Nature Jewellery, to the mix for that little hint of added Beauty and the Beast Belle. The ring also comes with a HUD allowing you to choose between Gold or Silver for metal, and 16 gem color options.


FEATURED

Second Nature Jewellery – Grace Set – Earrings, Necklace & Bracelet
Second Nature Jewellery – Athena Rose Ring

WORN

DOUX – Valentine Hairstyle
Deep Static – Kinsley Glasses
Sugarose – AURORA – Lipstick & Eyeshadow

POSE

piXit – Finesse


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Retro Vibes


I am dedicating today’s post to a dear friend Abbey Jenna, because the song that was playing on repeat for the duration of shooting this photo is one that she posted on Facebook.

You can find me at the bar, shuttin’ down Broadway
Going too hard, bat shit crazy
So, turn the night up to ten, the whiskey’s fine, jump in
Going off, off, off, off, off the deep end

The vibes from this song brought me right back to the me I used to be, in my much younger years. The song mentions whiskey and Busch Light, but I was usually drinking Tequila and Natural Light ( I was a broke college student in those days, don’t judge ! ) Drinking and getting bat shit crazy was my signature move for any form of stress, or well, I never really needed a reason.

Maybe one of these days
I’ll pull all my shit together, sit down and do whatever
People do these days
‘Til then, you know, I’m doing okay

I have reached a point in life where I may still not have my shit together, but it is a hell of alot more stable. I am doin’ more than okay, I have reached the stage of my life I like to call “Responsible Adult” – ish. It has been 24 years since we have had a drink, and you could not pay me enough to ever want to do my younger years again. We were a train wreck in our 20’s, we worked way too hard to get where we are, to ever want to go back and have to figure it all out again. Being a responsible 47 year old, is nowhere as boring as we ever though it would be.

I can still listen to the song and enjoy it without wanting to grab a drink and party with the crowd. I can appreciate the music and the waves it is giving off, without wanting to dive right back into them. There are parts of that former life that I do have some really fun memories of, ones that make us smile, and laugh till we have tears, and well, there is a reason we are still known as Crash in the small town we were living in, but I won’t go into that here LOL.

What I will go into is this super cute pose and prop from Something New that they have released for the Spoonful Of Sugar event that is running from September 3rd – 18th. The lifeguard chair comes with 3 poses, lifeguard board and binoculars.

Also, I am going to mention that our dear Abbey is the owner of Abbs-olute Brat and LEVEL UP. You can find her items on marketplace and in your Zooby Animesh Texture HUD. And if you are so interested, she will also pose for taco’s, just check her Flickr, just take note of my ** ADULT CONTENT WARNING **


FEATURED

Something New – Babe Watched @ Spoonful Of Sugar

WORN

MOoH – Hannah Bikini
FAGA – Evelyn Hairstyle
KC Couture – Dexi Eyewear

LANDSCAPE

KAZZA – Beach Pack
Fundati – Beach Dunes


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A Day In The Mind


Today is the opening day of the Spoonful of Sugar Event to support Doctors Without Borders / Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF). The event runs from September 3rd – 18th. You can find more information about the event on the official website at https://www.thesosfestival.com/.

Cerridwens Cauldron is participating in this event, and have created an event exclusive coloring of the Summer Prince Statue that will only be available at the event. I previously blogged the original color set of the statue here – Frog Shroom Royalty – and chose to show it off in the smaller scale option this time.

When deciding how I wanted to present this to you all, my mind went on quite an adventure during the brainstorming. I started out with ‘ Medicinal Frogs ‘ and that transformed into Dr’s Without Borders and Nurses Without Limits, but of course that is a totally different kind of post now isn’t it ? So then I finally landed on ‘ Do These Boobs Make My Frog Look Big ? ‘.

So as you can see, our mind is rather twisted and perverse, and just a little silly.

The other items in the scene are also from Cerridwens Cauldron and are available at the mainstore.


FEATURED

Cerridwens Cauldron – Summer Prince Statue SOS Exclusive Color @ Spoonful Of Sugar Event
The Spoonful Of Sugar event supports Doctors Without Borders / Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF)

ALSO FROM CEREDWYN’S CAULDRON

Cerridwens Cauldron – Hydroponics Module
Cerridwens Cauldron – XenoBiology Hovertable Terrarium
Cerridwens Cauldron – XenoBiology Desk Terrarium- White
Cerridwens Cauldron – XB Pod White/High Res Textures

ALSO SHOWN

VORTECH – Sci-fi Skybox 2022 V1.0

WORN

Hanatsumi – Chelsea
Zenith – Medic Hat (White)
Magika – Michelle
VOBE – Chained Love

POSE

piXit – Mikami*


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Seeing Stars


Oh my, starry eyed surprise
Sun down to sun rise
Dance all night
We gonna dance all night
Dance all night to this DJ
Now sugar, dance all night to this DJ

There is something about a song that gets stuck in your head, even when you have not actually heard the song. A memory or a random thought just thrusts the beat into your head, and suddenly you are bopping along singing it to yourself like a fool, and not caring one bit !

This happens to us frequently with Oakenfold – Starry Eyed Surprise. We are not quite sure why this particular song is such a frequent visitor on our internal playlist, but once it does, it is there for at least a good 24 hours. Perhaps it is the beat, but even tho it came out long after our rollerskating days, it gives off roller rink vibes !

Seeing the stars on this weekends Saturday Sale offerings from Second Nature Jewellery instantly threw the single on repeat in our minds. It may not be Saturday, but all three items are out now at the mainstore. So grab your skates and find your favorite DJ and see your own stars !


FEATURED

Second Nature Jewellery – Ginger Earrings Siver
Second Nature Jewellery – Ginger Choker Silver
Second Nature Jewellery – Ginger Necklace Silver

available at the mainstore for The Saturday Sale

WORN

RAMA SALON – Sierra Hair
Decoy – Priscilla Romper

BACKGROUND

RAMA – Vertical Palm Wall ‘Pink’


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Look Out For Dropping Shoes


Recently, I came across a quote that a friend had shared on FB from Tumblr. It was one of those posts that you have to stop and read, not just a meme to glimpse and keep scrolling. This one not only made me pause, but truly sit and contemplate the accuracy of how a stranger, who did not know us, could still seem to know us so well. That may be one of the things I love the most about Facebook, you find out that you really are not alone, in anything.

  This may seem like basic common sense, but one interesting (and kind of terrifying) thing I recently read was that some individuals who grew up in an emotionally abusive environment find that their anxiety level actually decreases in the presence of those who are mean or overly critical of them because it’s familiar. Their nervous systems are hard wired to react to that kind of treatment as “normal” in the sense that it knows what to do with it–what defense mechanisms to employ when, etc.

   Meanwhile, kinder, more peaceful, and healthier relationships are quite a dramatic adjustment, and ironically feel less predictable because of all the threats that are absent and never materialize. It feels suspicious or too good to be true, which in turn ratchets up hyper-vigilance and hyper-arousal. Instead of knowing what BS is coming because it always does, there’s the nebulous sense that the other shoe is just waiting to drop. Safety and respect can feel the most unsafe for a while, because as far as the traumatized nervous system is concerned, those things don’t exist, or if they do in any form, there must be a million unseen strings attached.

    This is part of what traps a lot of people in abusive relationships, consistently draws them to want to please assholes, or keeps them moving from one unhealthy environment to the next–a highly toxic comfort of familiarity where being on the receiving end of cruelty feels like “home”. 

angstmonsterwrites @ Tumblr

Even nearly 5 years into a healthy relationship with Troy, there are still times when our base instinct is to grab the binoculars and scan the horizon for falling shoes. We hate that we still get that feeling, because we know it is not Troy who is responsible for the action.

Cause and effect” is a relationship between events or things, where one is the result of the other or others. This is a combination of action and reaction. Only in the case of PTSD, the two are not directly related. Imagine seeing someone’s angry face and their arm raised, fist coming forward towards your face, your brains natural response is to flinch. Now imagine your partners laughing smiling face with their arm raised to brush something from your hair. Your response to the second, is not going to be the same as the first, because the situation and circumstances are not the same. The trouble with PTSD, is that our brain can not always tell the difference. We respond to the gentle brush of a hand, the same way one would respond to a punch to the face, we flinch.

Trauma responses are not always about physical stimuli. We say the rhyme as children, we all know it. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” Oh the lies we teach our children. Sticks and stones may break bones, but words leave deeper scars. Emotional and mental abuse, are still abuse. The wounds they leave can not be treated and healed with bandages and stitches.

We are lucky, that Troy is who he is, and how he is. We still flinch, but we do it less than we used to.

If you or someone you know is experiencing mental, emotional, physical or sexual abuse, please contact your local or national hotlines for assistance. The path out, is not one you need to take alone, there are many of us who have cleared the way to help you.


FEATURED

Something New – Going Off Grid

The prop and pose are part of the Going Off Grid Hunt which is running until September 30.
You can locate the item by going to the Something New mainstore and hunting !
Hint – Come ride with me and lets get off the grid!

WORN

RAMA SALON – Kylee Hair
Hilly Haalon – Margot Set
SEmotion Libellune – Tropical Aratinga #16

SCENERY

Skye – EPIC Cliff Set
Skye – Water Set
Fundati – Tropical Palm


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Holy Cleavage


My dear, religion is like a penis. It’s a perfectly fine thing for one to have and take pride in, but when one takes it out and waves it in my face we have a problem.

Violet Crawley, Dowager Countess of Grantham – Downton Abbey

Religion is one of those topics, that we tend to avoid talking about, but once we do, we ramble quite a bit. We fully support each and every single person on this planet’s right to choose their own belief system, and to practice that religion, provided that it does not involve doing harm to others. As the quote above says, you are perfectly welcome to be proud of your penis, but that does not give you the right to wag it in someone else’s face.

Personally, we are not fans of organized religion, as a whole. We consider ourselves spiritual but not religious. We believe that there is a higher power, and refer to it in general, as God, and male, because it is just easier. We believe that there was a man back in the day, named Jesus, who was that age’s version of a Mother Theresa, but not so much that he was the son of God in the way that the bible likes to tell it. We also generally believe that “God” is universal, and no matter what the religion, it all comes back to the same being, who just happens to get called different things based on cultural and geographic traditions.

We believe that God gave us all free will, and that he does not take that away when we die.

Want to hang out in heaven for a while and just chill? Sure !

Want to go back to earth and wander around? Great, ghost it is !

Want to go back to earth and live another life with different challenges to better understand something you haven’t quite figured out yet? BOOM, Reincarnation it is !

I won’t continue to ramble on about it, but if you are up for a respectful conversation about religious beliefs, you can figure out how to message in world I am sure.

With all that being said, have you seen this stunning cross necklace that I am showcasing with my Holy Cleavage ? This beauty is the Martha Cross Necklace and is a new Group Gift from Second Nature Jewellery. The earrings as well are another Group Gift Holo Earrings from the 10th Anniversary set ! There is no fee to join the group, and you can pick up both at the main store as well as a wall of other gifts !


FEATURED

Second Nature Jewellery – Martha Cross Necklace
Second Nature Jewellery – Halo 10th Anniversary Earrings

WORN

Doux – Victoria Hair
Glitzz – Charlotte Body
Mossu – Kira Faux Fur Stole
Heron – ELIANA – Makeup Eyeshadow
Muac – 16 Lipstick – GLOSSY

POSE

piXit – Finesse


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This Is Us


Anyone who has known us for any length of time, knows that we used to shoot quite a lot of adult content. We were all about the public displays of sex for a number of years, and then Troy happened.

That really sounds bad when I type it that way, but it was truly the very best thing to ever happen, to any of us. We still enjoy a very healthy and happy sex life, we just no longer feel the need to share it with the rest of you. Sorry, not sorry ! That being said, now that our lives have become what they are, you may just see more of Troy than you ever saw on display before. *Rawr*

We used to use our sexuality, as a way to bolster our confidence, and sadly, our self worth as well. Survivors of childhood trauma often times end up one one extreme or the other on the sexual spectrum. There are generally speaking two choices, slut or prude, and it is difficult to find a healthy middle ground.

We are extremely grateful, and thankful, that we have found the safe haven that we have found in our relationship with Troy. We have come a long way and are looking forward to seeing what comes in the future to come.

Something New has released this cute background and 4 single poses for the PosEvent, which is running from August 27th – September 19th. When I saw the background, I had a desire to shoot something with Troy, and so I popped over to the mainstore to find acouples pose. Something New offers so many options from cute to romantic to sexy, but instead of gravitating to the smexy steamy or smushy kissy poses, my eyes went directly to this pose instead. I laughed so much as I purchased it, because it really is US. We are derps, and we own that every day, loudly and proudly. I just knew that this pose was meant to go with this background, tho I did have to make one small adjustment. Sorry Allyson, but we are so not mustard girls, so I had to use the tint feature and change that to ketchup !


FEATURING

Something New – Lil Cafe Prop @ PosEvent
Something New – Sorry Thats My Hotdog @ Mainstore

ARYSTA

Blueberry – Bella Skirt – Boho Pack
Blueberry – Bella Bikini – Boho Pack
Blueberry – Solstice – Classic Pack
Maxi Gossamer – Venice Beach Boho
Glorious Insanity – Mesh Nails – Gradient Set #6
Foxy – Feline Hair

TROY

L&B – Jett Short Sleeve
L&B – Swear Watchdog Jeans
Legal Insanity – Dakota Bracelets


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